The Four C's of Being a Lady
If you are a young lady in the 21st century who wants to be respected, admired, and eventually married then you may find it more difficult but remember the first place to start is always with your own character, conduct, conversations and finally your clothing.
As tattoo’s become more prevalent and clothing becomes less about covering your assets and more about exposing them, it’s hard to know what to wear although you want to be respected by men, admired by other women and eventually married. You have a decision to make. Are you a wife or a whore?
Look at your four C’s and decide.
Character – what do your friends say about you; do old boyfriends think highly of you after they depart; Are you known for being messy or a trouble maker; Are you kind, loving, hospitable, approachable and pleasant to be around.
Conduct – are you unpredictable, do people expect you to embarrass them when out in public, are you known for being loud, rude, do you to talk too much, talk too loud, dethrone men on a regular basis in your attempt to show how smart you are at all times.
Conversations – do you curse when expressing yourself because you lack the vocabulary to express dislike with words found in a dictionary; can you be found gossiping or knowing the latest gossip; does your name sing in conversations involving he said or she said; do you lie easily; do you use your words to manipulate men and women.
Now if you are still trying to avoid the diagnosis let’s preview the last C which is your Clothing.
When deciding how to dress or who to pattern your clothing after always look at women who are enjoying the benefits of clothing that doesn’t reveal everything, but they are still fashionable, classy, covered, eye catching and sporting carats on the third finger of the left hand.
This clothing can be fun, sparkly, fitted, sexy, and stylish. Many young women think that in order for them to be sexy or stylish they must wear clothing that reveals their breast, their legs, their buttocks, etc. The attention they receive is not out of respect but out of lust. The men attracted to these displays have no intentions of marrying you or even dating you, they only want to sleep with you.
There are so many options in clothing that it’s sad when young women feel compelled to reduce themselves to the level of a whore to draw attention. In many countries where women are required by law to be covered from head to toe the marriage rate is higher than it is in our country where women are scantily clad. I know that there are many other factors involved in their marriages but these men marry women that they’ve never seen other than their eyes. I still find that concept very foreign but the principal is still the same; “don’t give away what men should have to marry for”.